Friday, June 12, 2020

Enzo- 11 months


Almost to a year.  This year has flown by.  And we can't believe how big this kid is.  He's been pretty clingy and unhappy lately and I wish I knew why.  I end up carrying him around the house WAY more than I'd like to.  But he also has stretches of playing on his own with toys. 

I think his favorite room in the house is the toy room.  It's kid-friendly and he'll sit and play with all the stuff independently.  (Actually, he loves the kids' bathroom, but usually isn't allowed to hang out in there.  If I take my eyes off him for a minute, that's the first place I look for him.)

He cruises around on furniture and has learned to stand up on his own and stay for a few seconds before toppling over. 

In the past 4-ish weeks he's developed eczema, mostly on his legs.  I was trying to figure out if its allergy related, but doesn't seem to be.  It just fluctuates between dry and scaly to red and inflamed.  Mila and Siena had this starting around 18 months (I think?) so it's familiar but still a little frustrating.  He gets slathered in a LOT of hydrophor.  

I bought a corral thing, like a giant, portable pack and play.  He HATES it.  I had visions of taking this to parks, pools, beaches, etc and having a safe place to put him.  (Even in the backyard while the kids play soccer.)  But if he's in there alone for even 10 seconds he stands up and cries to get out.  Our one success is bribing the older kids to go in with him to play, and then he's content, at least for a little while.  You win some and lose some...

This kid is CLUMSY.  He gets hurt all. the. time.  Like he'll just fall over into furniture and smash his face.  I think he has 3 bruises on his face right now.  And the pain makes him angry, where its difficult to console him.  

Still only 2 teeth on the bottom, although I swear he's been teething for the last two weeks.  Where are those teeth that I imagine are causing him so much pain?  haha.  He bites my finger and any other toy he can get in his mouth.  

His sleep has thankfully improved a little.  We changed nap lengths during the day, and now he sleeps in until just after 6 am, instead of in the 5-o-clock hour.  I wish it was closer to 7, but its a step in the right direction.  He goes to bed at 7:30 pm, and naps from 10-11:30 and 3-4.  (Last night I was reading about how, at a year, Tiago slept from 7:30 pm - 8:30 am.  That made me really miss his excellent sleeping!)  It's also not uncommon for Enzo to wake up between 3-6 am and cry for 5-20 minutes before putting himself back to sleep.  But at least there are no more feedings.

We need to weigh him for a more exact number, but I'm guessing he weighs 22-23 lbs.  He's got some solid rolls.

Lastly, as evidenced by all these photos, he definitely has a 'look'.  It involves biting on his lower lip and staring.  Luckily, out of a few dozen pictures, we got one smile.  











Tuesday, June 2, 2020

Quarantine wrap-up??


It finally feels like this quarantine is winding down.  Officially, Texas has been 'open' for a month, but with certain parameters.  Masks in stores, stores at 25% capacity and people spaced 6' apart.  It was still advised to not go to playgrounds, etc.

On Saturday I saw two neighbor kids outside playing together, so I figured it was a good time to send my kids out and let them get on with life.  (We had been hesitant previously to have them go knock on anyone's door because their parents may not have appreciated it.)  They spent about 5 hours outside on Saturday, and several hours each day since.  It's wonderful!  Tiago, especially, has been so happy and much better behaved. 

We've been having the kids take swim lessons at a friend's pool.  It felt great to catch up with friends, and on Friday night a few families met up to swim and make s'mores.  We kept it outside, and under 20 people, so it still felt responsible.   And so fun!

We've been to the playground once. 

I've been in the library to pick up books, but I leave the kids at home.

I still don't go to the store with my kids.  I don't want them to have to wear masks.

Church hasn't re-opened, although I anticipate it will within the next few weeks, in groups less than 50 people. 

Hyrum worked remotely every other week for the last 5-ish weeks.  Yesterday that ended, so he'll be at the office full-time.  But he's still driving.  Not sure when he'll take the train again!

So all in all, there are hints of normalcy, but we're still basically at home all the time!